Well, in my own words. There are so many things that have "gone out of style" to put it nicely. Thanks to millennial babies and feminists chivalry and respect and kindness for others have gone right out the window. It seems to me that this was easy for them. All those things that our parents tried so hard to teach us somehow got lost in translation along the way to the next generation. Things like holding the door open for the person behind you/your lady, simple kind every day gestures like saying please and thank you, saying hello and smiling to passers by, or even referring to those you don't know as sir or ma'am have become crazy what the hells to these younger kids. Who's to blame for these things? Who do we have to shake to get them to understand that this "attitude", that is quite common, is just not okay??
I think that there are a lot of things that are ok today that were definitely not ok a decade or so ago have a lot to do with it. Things that have been goin on for generations but were never talked about. As the military put it "don't ask, don't tell". Well now it's "you can ask but you're not allowed to get upset if you don't like the answer". This is also not okay! How can you say it's ok if you're not like me, but damn you to hell if you are? Isn't that kind of hypocritical? Chastising and damning those who are different, in the name of Jesus, that seems to be popular now a days. It's annoying! I know for a sure fact I am not the only one that feels that this is the definition of hypocrisy. Religious people are often at fault for this! No, I am not mad at religious people. I just feel strongly that if you are going to label yourself as a Christian, for example, you cannot walk around judging and damning those who are either not living that life or a different religion. Everyone seems to think their religion is right, right? You're actions are not in the name of Jesus! You may claim them to be, but so far everything you have done, is definitely NOT something Jesus would do or even consider doing. Angry, disrespectful actions such as condemning those who are gay or black or Muslim is NOT an action you would catch Jesus doing. The way I grew up, Jesus taught to love thy neighbor, respect strangers, be kind to all. As most would say "treat others the way you want to be treated". I don't mean to nitpick but what happened to saying "hey, nice tits!" when did that go out the window? I'm merely complimenting your exquisite bodice. Silly conservatives and your definitions of what sexual harassment is! It's not like I grabbed you! I walked your way, and kept going. I didn't even look back. You kept walking your way and got pissed off cuz the weirdo stranger told you you had a nice rack! Whatever!
Ha Ha. Okay let's get to the nitty gritty. I know that there are a lot of folks out there who do not approve of this LBGT movement. I personally don't understand it. So you're gay! Who gives a shit, go be gay! I do not care. Why does it matter? It doesn't. Oh you wanna be woman and you were born a man? Tough shit! You're a dude! Lady-dudes is what I call them. If you have a damn vagina, you're a woman. If you have a weiner, YOU'RE A MAN! Oh yes, I am definitely one of those people who hate that people think this way. I wouldn't go as far to say that is a mental disorder, as some have, but that doesn't mean I don't think you're a complete wackaduke for it. Again, I do not care if you are gay or lesbian or transgender. That does not bother me in the slightest. What bothers me is the way these people are treated! Be gay if you want. Live YOUR life the way that makes you happy. Do I approve? Not necessarily. But I am also NOT going to go out of my way to tell you that I think you're wrong. Why? because that is not my decision. I, for one, would be REALLY angry if someone told me how I was supposed to live or feel and put federal nation wide laws on who I could love. This is probably why the movement got started in the first place. People got sick of being treated as outcasts and degenerates instead of human beings that have feelings and deserve respect. You know what I mean Vern?
I believe that just because a person is different, doesn't mean they are broken. It doesn't mean they don't deserve a good life, or good fortune, or love. Who the hell are you to judge?? That brings me back around to religious folk who think otherwise. Remember the "in the name of Jesus" thing? Well guess what there is another thing that he didn't do...judge others. So how is it a religious, most the fanatics, person can say, "Oh no, I don't judge because I'm so and so religion. Hmmm well you missed the mark there Mr. Baptist!
Ok back on point. I have notice an outrageous reaction to the transgender bathroom issue. Either that or "You may use the bathroom that you self identify with" policy that target recently adopted. ARE YOU FUCKING NUTS!? Why would you do that?? Why???!!! This policy honestly, my friends, has NOTHING to do with transgender folk. It really doesn't. The reason for that is because, as I said before, transgender folk have been among walking homosapiens for MANY generations. Only now they're out in the open and others are aware of their existence has it become a "problem".
I'd like to point out that I DO NOT have a problem with transgender folk. What I have a problem with, as I said before, is this: most people, the average person anyway, are not millionaires. The procedure to change your sex, gender reassignment surgery, is QUITE expensive. The average American probably can't afford to pay for this operation. It is not covered under most insurance plans. That is not to say that it is impossible. As I said, millionaires can afford it. Folks like Laverne Cox, and Bruce Jenner, they can afford it. Not to mention the boob jobs. Those are pricey procedures too. Anyways, my point is, unless you can afford these surgeries, I'm sorry but you are a MAN or a WOMAN stuck in a MAN or a WOMAN's body. Deal with it!!!
This brings me back to the bathroom problem. The main issues and opinions I've seen about this is "if you're allowed to go into the bathroom you 'self identify' with, what is stopping a man who does not have this issue from saying he is and following me into the bathroom"?? Let me stop you right there! YOU ARE NOT DESCRIBING GENDER DISOCIATIVE DISORDER!!!! YOU ARE NOT!! You are talking about rape culture!! You are more scared of a man sexually assaulting you than you are a PERSON who identifies as a woman. Worried about your kids??? How about you focus on TEACHING your child(ren) about gender dissociative disorder!! You are teaching them to be SCARED of these people, not UNDERSTAND these people. Teach your child(ren) to be aware of the differences people have. Teach them it is ok to be different because they can be whoever they want to be. Again, PEOPLE DESERVE RESPECT. It does not matter how you feel about what THEY are doing with THEIR lives!
*Notice all the capitalized words. That means the words are key!*
It truthfully is none of your business! Now, I have said a few times that I personally do not much care for that way of life, but again I must emphasize that I do not care if YOU live that way. I have MY OWN life to live and I choose to live it MY WAY! I am not being forced to accept nor reject YOUR way of life. That is what is so great about choice, right? What I'm saying in very simple words, in case you didn't get it, is GET OVER IT! MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!
Swinging back around to the religious aspects of this issue. Along with all that, I've also seen a lot of videos posted of people defending their opinion on the matter. People have been saying some pretty mean things. Physical threats, name calling etc...Does that sound like respect to you? NO, don't be a dick, he said, remember!? This goes back to the point I made about people deserving respect. Gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people are just that....PEOPLE. You nor anyone else has ANY right to treat them so badly and threaten their safety for being different.
GO TO THE BATHROOM BEFORE YOU LEAVE, DUMB DUMB!!
I'm not naïve to the fact that small children and babies need to go to the bathroom sometimes when you are out. I get that, trust me I do. So if you are truly that worried about it, maybe you should stay home. If you must go out, don't go to places of controversy that you seem to want to cry about so much! You can no longer complain about it if you're willingly going to the places that support this decision. Like Target. Go somewhere else. No one is forcing you to go there. If you don't go there you are not going to be forced to comply, comprende?
Ok, well that pretty much covers it. Key points being:
Don't be a dick! Be kind to others regardless because that is what a decent person is all about.
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